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Balancing The Scales Of Justice

 

Welfare, Work and Raising Children

Conversations with Twenty-One Maine Families


Janet
LUBEC,  MAINE

"I feel that the Parents as Scholars program gave me the opportunity to become the person that I am today, not by sending me to school but by believing that I could. I am sharing my story in hopes that it does some other parent good." 


Growing up in the coastal town of Lubec, Maine, there weren't a whole lot of options for people to choose from. I married while still in high school and had a child soon after graduation. By the age of 30, I had been married and divorced twice and worked as a laborer since the age of fifteen. In December of 1997, my life changed just as I was feeling good about myself. I became injured and could no longer work. By February of 1998 I was running out of money and had to find a way to support my twelve-year-old daughter and myself. I turned to the TANF program to help feed her but this was very degrading for me, it was not what I wanted. Then someone asked me how I would feel about going back to school.

I had always wanted to go to college but never thought it would happen. Having a child at nineteen kind of puts a hold on your whole life. My injury has insured that I will never again do the work that I had been doing previously so I thought, "It can't hurt anything to try." That was the best thing that ever happened to me. All my life the jobs I had were hard work paying anywhere from $10,000 to $15,000 a year. Not much money to raise a child on but I was doing it. School would change the way of life for my family.

On May 12, 2001, I graduated from the University of Maine in Machias with an Associate of Science Degree, with honors, in Administrative Management. Since graduation, I landed a job as a Financial Services Coordinator in a small community nursing and residential care facility. This has doubled the annual income that I was earning before my accident. And not only that, my daughter, who is now 17 and a junior in high school, is definitely going to college and maybe even graduate school.

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