I worked very hard all my life. I was a
veteran. I raised my own children. And now I am raising two grandchildren. I
have had my granddaughter in my home almost since she was born 9 years ago,
and about 3 years ago, I took in my grandson whose parents were physically
and emotionally abusive to him.
Although my grandchildren are wonderful, it
is hard for me to go through the chores of parenting all over again. It is
especially difficult for me because I have ulcerative colitis. I had
experienced painful symptoms for many years but it wasn't until I was
admitted to the hospital because my problems were so severe that I was
diagnosed. The colitis flares up during stressful times.
I am trying hard to meet the TANF work
requirements, which apply to me even though I am a grandparent. Right now I
work at a department store for $6.25 an hour. My goal is always to do 30
hours each week, but many weeks I do not make it because of my colitis.
Also, the kids have counseling which I attend at times.
My goal is to become a computer programmer. I
have been working on my degree in computer information for several years.
Usually when I try to go to school full-time, while still working because we
need the money, my colitis acts up and I have to cut back, so it is taking
me a lot longer than I would like. I keep on trying though, and right now I
am taking three classes in addition to my job.
It is not easy to go through the parenting
process a second time but I know my grandchildren need me and I am going to
be here for them. I am very hopeful for a day when we will not live in
poverty and my grandchildren will have the opportunity to follow their
dreams.
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